Monday, June 21, 2010

Olivia Marie

I had been married ten months when I found out I was expecting a baby. It was an ordinary day minus a small stomach bug I thought I might have, so I headed over to our universities nurses office to receive something that might make me feel a little better, so I could make it through my day of classes. Everyone on campus loved nurse Paul, and I knew he'd help me figure out what was making me feel so icky. Once I explained my symptoms. He said well maybe you have a UTI or possibly your pregnant?? I immediately declared "that could never be possible, I need to graduate college first and get a job, and a house..." He just made me stop and go take the test, and when I came back, a few minutes later ran back into the room and declared "YOUR PREGNANT!!" I think I about fainted, and then I cried and then I called Kirk, who said "your what?" I repeated myself" and then he screamed "YAY!!" I'll be right there" He ran in the rain and wind about a mile to the nurses station. He was SO thrilled, neither of us had any idea how our lives were about to change...for the better!!!




Olivia Marie Johnston entered our lives at 6:09pm on June 21st 2008 (3 weeks early) after an intense 24 hours of labor and eventually a c-section due to complications. She was born 4 lbs 10oz's, larger than they thought she would be. She was the most gorgeous thing I had ever seen and I loved her immediately. All the nausea, continual bathroom breaks, weight-gain, tiredness, pre-ecamplsia, restricted interuterine growth, anxiety, and fear went from my mind when I saw her face. Olivia was a huge blessing to Kirk and I's lives and marriage and we thank the Lord each day for her precious life. She has brought so much joy, laughter, and light to our family! She has had somewhat of a hard road these past two years with intense developmental therapy (OT, PT, Speech and EI's) but God has proven Himself faithful each step of the way, opening her mind to learn new things and catch up She is talking up a storm, walking, running, jumping, counting, and exploring her world with all her senses! The Lord has used Olivia's life to teach Kirk and I that His timing is always perfect, and although we map our "plans" for life, he guides our steps. We have been learning how to trust God in all things, we had no idea how to be parents to this beautiful gift He gave us but he has surrounded us with those who have guided us along the way. Giving advice, a listening ear, and gentle encouragement to run the race, and to raise her to honor the Lord. I am excited for our journey with Liv, she surely has made things a lot more exciting around the Johnston house!

Tuesday, June 8, 2010

Things are a changin'

We have some big events coming up in our family: one being that my mother is selling the house that she and my dad built together and is downsizing to a smaller home that is closer to Kirk and me. We are absolutely thrilled to have mom closer and to enjoy her company more often (if only we could see Kirk's parents more often, we miss them!!!) This move has proven to be very difficult in many ways for mom, she has had to pack up 25 + years of memories in only a few weeks and say good-bye to the home where she and my dad had dreamed of the future together. My dad passed away 5 years ago due to a sudden heart attack at the age of 50 and he is a dearly missed father and husband. While this move is sad in many ways it is also a time to get excited about what God may have for the future as she moves to Greenville from Powdersville. You could be in prayer for us as a family as we help mom move and readjust to her new home.

Another big event or should I say events coming up, are the birthdays of our two beautiful children!! Olivia will be turning 2 (June 21) and Isaiah turning 1 (July 13). They are both such a joy and wonderful additions to our family. They have taught us so much about our continuing need for the Lord and his grace and mercy. No two children have made us laugh as much as these two! We look forward to what all we will experience together as a family...

We are also gearing up for Kirk to start his masters program in the fall while teaching full time. This will be a new experience that we are a little hesitant and nervous about. We know that this is God's timing for him to pursue this degree, but we know it will take a lot of extra time outside of work. Kirk will be pursuing a degree in Apologetics. He absolutely loves this area of theology and he hopes to one day teach at the college level. So, we are excited to support him in this next step we believe God is leading us in.

Along with Olivia's birthday, comes the fact that she will be 2....AGH! Olivia is a very social, happy, and strong willed child. We have been seeking a lot of advice from those who we respect on how to best shepherd Olivia, to guide her in a way that honors the Lord. We are currently reading Shepherding A Child's Heart and Toddlerwise. We have gained so much knowledge from these two great books, and are continually trying to stay consistent with Olivia-pointing her towards the gospel, even if she has no clue what we are saying. This week we have decided to start "breaking her away" from the thumb sucking. This involves using a very nasty tasting (all-natural) liquid that we put on her thumbs to keep her from sucking them. She has been very unhappy about the fact that her thumbs taste so bad, BUT she has not once since the initial taste tried to suck her thumbs again! So day 1 is going pretty good...other than some minor frustration.

Next up: POTTY TRAINING!


The house my parents built together.

Friday, June 4, 2010

Vacation to Tennesse

This past week we packed the car up and headed to Tennessee to Kirk's parent's, more affectionately known as "Nana and Pop Pop". We decided to leave around the kids bedtime so that the kids might fall asleep and the ride be more peaceful for us. Our plan worked and we made it to Tennessee last Thursday evening. The week was filled with many happy memories including swimming, playing with the dogs, playing with Nana's tuberware, visiting their great-grand pa, going to McDonalds for Olivia's FIRST ever fudge sundae, running around the Johnston's 14 acre paradise (that's what I call it) and of course enjoying Nana's awesome cooking! It was a fabulous and relaxing week and we feel blessed to have had such a great start to summer after such a long school year for Kirk. We can't wait to go back for Olivia's 2nd birthday in a few weeks, my how time flies!

Please enjoy the pictures: